So....I'm currently going out with this guy.....named Fang.... I've liked him since...well....basically ever since i've know him...so for a good.....two ish years....before I told him that I liked him....and things worked out and he liked me too :)
So we've been dating for....a year and a half now. We had a really rocky stage a while back, but I think that's finally over! Thank the stars. Anyways, we only have the rest of this year, and next year to be together, because after that we'll be full fledged warriors.
And he's planning on joining the Navy...
I dunno....I mean...I am happy for him, really! I think it's great that he wants to serve our country! My parents would love it too, if I told them. I guess part of me is still in denial that it's probably going to happen. No shame in saying it, I do love him.
I'm just being selfish...he'll be fine.... I just have to keep telling myself that. We still have a year and a half together... I just keep having these dreams. It's the last day of Camp, and we're talking about all these amazing plans for summer. And then as soon as I ask him " So it's a promise then? =D" He looks at me and then says "I have to go." and fades away. Just like that. He's gone. I never am able to get there fast enough to grab him, and he can't hear me yelling....he just looks off into the distance and dissolves.
If this was a one time thing, I could handle it. But it's not. I'm having this dream at least once a week. I guess I should just stop worrying about it... It is his life, I don't want to hold him back. I really don't. I'll just... miss him...
What happens if I meet someone else? Or he meets someone else? Fang's the first guy i've ever loved.... and as of right now, I cant even imagine feeling like this towards anyone else... So how could I be fair to that someone else? What if I wait the whole time, and he comes back with someone? Will I have just wasted 4-6 years of my life? What if he waits for me....but I don't wait for him....?
I wish I had answers to these questions... We have talked about it a little bit. I'm just afraid that if I really tell him how much I'm worrying about this, he'll back out... And I don't want to cause that.
I wish I could talk to him now... I dunno... We got carried away( not that far away -_-) a few days ago, and we kinda agreed to stop spending any time alone together and ever since... we've been really distant. It probably doesn't look like it on the outside. But I just don't feel the same.... connection...closeness as I did. It all seems fake to me right now... I've tried to get closer... but no luck... He doesn't want to talk to me...
Maybe i'll just wait...ride it out... I don't want things to stay like this though...
I hope he doesn't either...
Well this sure got a load of swirling thoughts off my mind. Which I really needed.
Stars Watch Over You
~ River